Checklist

I vowed that i will update more but somehow the free time i have at home when Alisha's sleeping or entertaining herself with her dad is more likely used to do laundry or snacking (huish, asyik lapar saja sekarang ni haha) or catching up on some of the tv shows i missed or most importantly sleeping napping. sudah jadi mama ni, kalau duduk depan tv,hati rasa serba salah.why am i watching these shows when i should be looking after alisha?then i sooth myself by reminding that this is me just rewinding after a long day.bukan lama pun..in fact tengok sekerat-kerat ja haha..
and..what does this have to do with checklist? haha.
we managed to bring Alisha to attend her first wedding reception (yeay!) last Sunday and managed a brief detour to my MIL's. this time, a mental checklist had helped with Alisha's diaper bag.first time bawa Alisha pegi 1Borneo, siap patah balik coz we forgot her formula milk on the kitchen counter top.hampeh punya mama haha..
here is a checklist i got from here. tapi boleh rajin²kan diri and Google diaper bag checklist lah juga (ni kalau ibu² senior ni nampak ni mesti ketawa.saya mamabudak baru belajar ambil galah tolong jolokan bahaha). it's good to have a checklist for everything bah kan, at least i admit i do checklist for almost everything haha.(alasan untuk sang pelupa haha)


Alisha's Diaper Bag Checklist
Diapers (duh.. haha) - Stock your bag with plenty of diapers, even if you don't think you'll need them all. You never know,mommies..he he
Wipes - Versatile wipes not only clean baby bottoms but are great for cleaning hands, faces, and even blotting stains and spills. Travel packs come in streamlined dispensers that tuck nicely into bags.
Plastic Bags - Seal-able bags are handy for disposing of dirty diapers or storing wet/soiled clothing.
Hand Sanitizer - A travel-sized bottle of this no-water-required cleanser is welcome after diaper changes.
Changing Pad - Don't get caught without a clean place to change your baby's diaper—especially if you're on the road with no changing table available.
Rash Cream - Don't let a diaper rash spoil your trip. Carry a small tube of cream or ointment to ease baby's discomfort.
Food/Drinks - Bring baby food, breast milk, formula, water, and/or juice in a small, easily accessible cooler bag. Be sure you bring enough to last through unexpected travel delays. Additionally, bring a snack and a bottle of water for you, which is especially important if you're breastfeeding.

Bibs - During your travels you may want to carry disposable bibs rather than tote dirty bibs around.
Burp Cloths - Cloths or a few cloth diapers are great for cleaning spit up and other spills.
Bottles and/or Sippy Cups -  Three bottles and/or sippy cups (one for juice or water, one for milk or formula, and an extra) are necessities.
Camera - Don't forget to capture moments of your little one on his or her trip!

Car seat Pillow - You want your baby's head to be well-supported on the trip.
Entertainment - Soft books, toys, baby's favorite blanket or lovey, and music are must-haves for keeping a little one happy and calm.
Extra Clothing - Accidents happen! If your baby has a blow-out diaper, you'll be grateful to have a clean outfit for him and a fresh shirt for yourself! You'll also want to have a sweater or jacket that offers warmth in air conditioning or a cooler climate.

 

Alisha and Dad checking out the pelamin.

Alisha’s cool aunt,Nadya (my sister ler..)

Yours truly with the lovely bride.

Nadya with two of the flower girls.

Aih sayang, mengimbau kenangan lama kah.ha ha

Alisha’s first meet with first cousin, Faiz.

Alisha’s brief visit to the bowling alley.

the bio-mariner having MarryBrown.

 

Love!


janji tidak buka blog masa kerja.eh, ni baru 2.10pm. hahahahaha

we love camera!

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There' a DONKEY in our living room!

Check out Pa & Ma Feb '12 issue cover!sooo cute!

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Dragon Is Coming to Town.

It's easy to know if a festive holiday is nearing..






I love eating this honey mandarins.but this time around won't be able to eat as much since im still breasfeeding Alisha.Haritu makan langsat dari dusun aki (read:grandpa) then bf Alisha,she ended up sakit perut.. T_T..

I am superglad we are having a whole week CNY holiday next week.boleh spend time sama Alish & hubby pun boleh rehat² sebab sudah 2 minggu tolong jaga Alisha. juga boleh pegi tengok kawin kak Cengeng tanpa risau esok kena bangun awal mau ke ofis.boleh pegi rumah MIL bawa Alisha jumpa Andung and Tok Ayah dia.Boleh singgah PP (jeles saya tengok Anang n family pegi PP.pecaya,saya blum pernah jejak kaki di sana bahaha *malu!).

Bah.sambung keja dulu ah.semangat mau chuti ni bahaha!

eh jap!jap!Alah, wedding theme kak Cengeng kaler biru.saya ni lamaaaa sudah tidak jahit baju kurung kaler biru. tadi pagi jumpa baju kurung biru a few years old untuk pakai pegi ofis tidak jadi pakai sebab tidak sempat iron bahaha (wah BAJU KURUNG BIRU.. macam tajuk lagu lah puleks).pakai itu ja and maybe pair with a nice shawl ja la kan.. hehe.

biru match dengan warna apa ah?*garu kepala. (senyum ingat isu Anang dengan hijau+oren nya)

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WW:Eat To Live

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WW:Not So Latest

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Sawan atau Berada Di Luar Negara?

Salam..Ok juga kamu semua?

Dua di atas (refer tajuk hihi) memang alasan yang tidak boleh di pakai. bahaha.

 kalau rayuan berjaya, terpaksa test JPJ one more time.bahaha. teringat kenangan fail ujian 'bukit' 8 tahun lalu.eh, baru 8 tahun berlesen, dan 3 tahun dengan lesen 'mati'.bahaha.pakcik JPJ pakcik trafik jangan marah.

Eh jap. Apa isu dia ni? Lesen tidak di renew dalam tempoh selewat²nya 3 tahun dari tarikh luput.Inilah natijahnya.nasib baik tidak pandai² pegi bebaris di Pejabat Pos mau renew.sah² kuyak.bahaha.

kenapa tiba² mau renew setelah sekian lama? since engaged sampailah sudah kawin and sampailah jadi mama ni, macam boleh kira pakai jari tangan dan kaki berapa kali ja saya driving sendiri.mostly memang tunang atau hubby yang drive(orang yang sama lah tu kan haha). my sister mentioned that too, the other day. even my dad is worried. "Kau masih boleh drive lagi ka ni?" bahaha.

BULIH BAH KALAU MAU (KAU) bahahaha..

Petua: Ibu Yang Kekal Perawan

Ok. Niat di hati nanti² baru update. Maklumlah yang dalam draft pun separa bersawang sudah. But this one cannot wait. Thanks Misha for sharing.

Ustazah Fatimah Az-Zahra (saya SUKA Ustazah Fatimah!) menurunkan petua untuk kaum ibu menjaga diri agar sentiasa jadi macam 'abqaro' menurut ayat di dalam Surah al-Waqiah.

('Abqaro' ini bermaksud perawan yang sentiasa menjadi perawan) Ayat ini elok untuk diamalkan setiap hari oleh kaum ibu untuk menjaga kesihatan luar dan dalam.

Caranya: 

 

1. Lepas solat Isya', ambil air segelas;

2. Baca Al-Fatihah sekali, Ayatul Qursi sekali;

3. Surah Al-Waqiah ayat 35-38 sebanyak 7 kali. 

4. Tiup dalam air dan minum. Niat dalam hati untuk menjaga kecantikan diri & untnk kebahagiaan rumahtangga.

imej di Google ya

Makna surah Al-Waqiah ayat 35-38:

(56.35) Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan isteri-isteri mereka dengan ciptaan istimewa,

56.36) Serta Kami jadikan mereka sentiasa dara (yang tidak pernah disentuh),

(56.37) Yang tetap mencintai jodohnya, serta yang sebaya umurnya,

(56.38) (Semuanya itu disediakan) bagi puak kanan.

 

 

 Semoga kita semua mendapat manfaatnya..InsyaAllah.

 

 

Semakan Status Permohonan BR1M

Manada dapat semak. Kalau dail nombor yang kena provide, asyik perempuan yang sama menjawap,

"Semua talian sedang digunakan"


"All circuits are now busy"


T_T

aik, Nonny minta bantuan.hahaha.kenapa? Saya tidak boleh minta bantuan ka? Alah, iklan juga yang bilang, kalau both husband & wife gaji kasar less than RM3K, boleh memohon.so, kalau Income kami RM2999.99, boleh kan?.*Kena indiklah (read:lanyak) stetmen ko ni Nonny.

Janganlah bah marah²,
Kami cuma mau mencuba²,
Sebab kami cukup kriteria,
Takkan itu pun dibilang salah..

hah..jawap..jawap.. hihi

I'm still editing and re-editing the drafts.Might post lattteeer (read:naaaannnti...) after I have photos to support my entries. Until then, kamu cuba² lah call. Kalau ada memohon BR1M lah kan.

1-800-222-500 or 1-300-88-3010

Cubalah boleh check melalui SMS atau Semakan Online.. kan senang..tidaklah berasak-asak talian 1-800 & 1-300 tuh.. Sigh~

I am Mama:Part 2

berjaya klik New Post lagi.but, i am pretty sure i might have these in more than 2 parts, so people (if there are people out derr reading these bahaha), pplease bare with me ok?

i promised that i will telltale on how becoming a mama changed me 360degrees right?well, it did. everytime i become very emotional or being very melancholy, i'll start to rant in this 2nd language.close friends will notice that hihi. but beware, saya seorang TESLian yang suka break the rules so ada juga itu bahasa kita keluar.biasaaa.. haha..

macam rajin blogwalking, makin terinfluence cara menge-post guna nombor2 taw.macam senang bah kan?melaluutttt..hahaha..

so, okhay, how becoming a mama changed me?

1.i become more patient.betul, saya menjadi sangat penyabar.ok, di sini mungkin ada  sesi konfesi(?).saya ialah sangat panas baran.mudah meruap.betul, jarang ada keadaan di mana saya boleh bertolenransi kalau ada benda yang doesn't go my way, or doesn't go according to my plan/likings. kalau irritated lagi, bah di sanalah tu mulut jadi pedangnot mentioned pandai tu mau kasi ampas2 barang.MasyaAllah.. T_T.saya selalu berusaha merubah kelemahan yang satu ini,dan alhamdulillah, as Alisha enters into our lives, i become more patient.THAN EVER.

tidak cukup tidur? ... sabar...

penat mendukung Alisha demi mendodoikan sebab dia bad mood bila kurang sihat? ... sabar...

tidak dapat tengok rancangan best2/kegemaran di tv sebab asal mau duduk depan tv, cepat2 terfikir kena cover tidur sebelum Alisha bangun for her next BF and diaper change... sabar..

resah sebab tidak makan itu dan ini sebab Alisha has a weak stomach (mudahan bila semakin besar, perut Alisha semakin 'kuat' Ameen..).. sabar..

sekarang ni, kalau ada benda yang bikin saya marah, kadang2 tu adalah juga marah2 tapi marah2 manja ja.most of the time, saya malas mau marah.macam sudah 'terbiasa' bersabar.

Alhamdulillah..

2. hubungan saya dan ibu  makin rapat. okhay, gini..orang cakap, bukan saya cakap orang cakap (baca ikut accent Abon.nda tau sepa ABon?bah ndapalah.).. kalau anak perempuan sama muka dengan mama nya, 'panas' and akan selalu bertelagah walaupun hakikatnya, dorangla paling serasi.contradicting?tell me about it.kalau bapa sama anak lelaki pun gitu tu kunun.tapi  kalau mama sama muka anak lelaki, nah, paling ngam itu.orang cakap la bukan saya cakap.

so.. 

my mum n i minutes before akadnikah.sama kan muka?haha

i know my 'hard-headed'ness had hurt my mum in many ways T_T and i hope she forgives me.janganlah jadi macam tanggang nauzubillahminzalik. but but but.. now that Alisha is with us, and it is this iron lady that helped me when I was almost on a nervous breakdown for not being able to properly breastfed Alisha during her first 2 weeks. it is her that stayed up for hours and let me rest to help put Alisha tp sleep when hubby n i failed to do so. she climbed the stairs every morning to prepare my hot meals during my confinement eventho i know her knee is hurting (glad no one is at home but me and Alisha.no one sees me crying rite now.. T_T)..

and after all those years we were like magnets of the same pole, almost always pushing each other apart for being keras hati masing-masing mau berkeras, as i reach my big three -o, mum and i are the best of friends, talking and gossiping until the wee of hours like youngsters. now, we share everything. a day is not  complete if we dont update each other with our 'what's up?'.

Alhamdulillah.

Being a mum brought many miracles into my life. semoga kamu dan kamu dan kamu semua yang bakal jadi mama juga akan rasa keajaibannya. betul, magic tahu?

Alisha is squirming. macam kejap lagi diap bangun ni. haha..nantilah saya bloggeroid then saya upload gambar si kecil lagi ah. 

till then, don't forget to call or sms or have at a least a simple conversation with your mum today.buat yang sudah kembali bersama PenciptNya, sedekahkan Al-Fatihah dan doakan beliau.

*senyum sambil teringat, tadi sempat tengok Junior  Masterchef, ya Allah kalau sudah jadi mama ni, tengook budak2 tu asyik nangis ja.cover2 depan my sister malu kedapatan nangis bahahaha.

Daddy'll Do Just Fine

since we coludn't possibly be going to the cinemas in the near future,we found an alternative of good movie day where Alisha can tag along and breastfed as much as she likes.FFM does the trick for us.

Fox Family Movies.CH152.

ya,jangan ketawalah.saya taulah saya ketinggalan jaman sebab baru tau ada cenel itu.bahaha.lama tidak layan astro,di tingkst atas cuma ada rtmtv3ntv7alhijrah saja kawan.

movie2 dia bukanlah movie baru macam astro first,tapi good selection for family viewing.yesterday kami tengok Mighty Duck (1 of my ol'time favorite). earlier this evening,kami tengok The Game Plan.kebetulan,saya ni peminat Dwayne Johnson.hihi.Ala, The Rock bah haha.

comel ja budak yang jadi anak the rock dalam movie tu.super adorable and witty!hubby pun layan sambil makan kacang and maruku ikan. Alisha?







daddy daughter bonfing time watching daddy daughter movie. mamanya?tiada dalam gambar akibat kekenyangan makan nasi 2pinggan and sup ikan kerisi.erk!susah,breastfeeding makes me hungry almost all the time.

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Bikin Pikiran

It is not a good day for me today. I whine a bit. then tiba2 rasa rugi pulak, sebab kan baru 4 hari di tahun 2012, sudah mau merungut2 segala. Sudah berusaha ni pujuk2 hati tidak merungut, butt i am only human. 

1. Alisha meragam lagi semalam. perut tidak kembung, dapat BM & FM accordingly tapi tidak mau tidur. I know she's sleepy sebab asyik gosok2 mata (ya baby yang sikit hari lagi masuk 2 bulan itu pandai gosok2 mata haha.ni belum saya cerita 'tricks' lain yang dia sudah start buat.hoho). puas si mama dodoikan. puas si bapa buaikan (sabah:ayun guna 'ayunan'.ya dengan wajah sedih saya terpaksa mengalah dan minta hubby belikan ayunan padahal rancangan awal tidak mau mengayun Alisha T_T).

last2, bawa masuk bilik my mum. magic, after 40 minutes of coaxing, Alisha tidur nyenyak. hebatnya ibu2 kita kan?thanks ibu.

2. sakit hati sebab cheque untuk gaji Disember 2011 baru clear hari ini. Orang lain sudah guna gaji untuk Disember buat bayar itu dan ini beli itu dan ini dan tambah wang simpanan, kita baru terkedek2 mau keluarkan dari bank. Wohoho, jangan cakap 'bagus juga bah lambat gaji, lambat habis'. Bikin hati panas itu kawan. Kita kan ada bil2 yang perlu dijelaskan. dan ADA DUE DATEnya.nah, kena denda lagi kita bulan ni.rugi!

3. Surat yang ditunggu-tunggu dari November dan terbawa ke Disember masih belum sampai. Tanya di sana sini, memang belum ada. I guess what we planned in 2011 needs some adjustments. Maklumlah, ada opsyen barulah katakan, so surat yang ditunggu kena effectlah. Biarlah, mungkin ada hikmah. Maybe there's a reason why i need to stay where i am at the moment. mudah-mudahan untuk kebaikan semua.

4. hati keberatan mau pegi kerja sebab tidak mau tinggalkan Alisha.ini memang kes berat. i know that heavy duties and workloads awaits at the office and i feel responsible on all of them, but my heart refues to think about preparing myself to go to work. deep down i feel Alisha needs my presents more than the office. but my other part tells me, that is me being selfish. i mother have to be selfish sometimes to protect her babies. but a WORKING mother must also know her responsibilities on other people who depend on her and pay her bills monthly.huk!

forgive me for the photoless entry, yet again. 

ps:people in FB (including mine!) are becoming more ridiculous than ever these days. i am THIS (showing the end bit of my jari telunjuk) to deactivating my account for good, tapi sayang sebab the reason why i have FB is to keep in touch with old friends and families. dilemma!

I am Mama: Part 1

This is a real entry.lega...i've been trying to steal some time to click the 'New Post' and after several attempts, i finally did today. sedikit huruhara sekarang sebab seisi rumah risau dengan Alisha yang asyik kembung perut T_T di tikar sejadah dan beberapa kali while being alone with her, i cried. Alisha is a strong baby.she seems calm eventough her tummy is already bloated with angin. kembung betul sudah, dia relax saja. mamanya yang tidak keruan. di sapu mintak angin Telon, dia 'buang angin macam orang dewasa kesian T_T.nanti2 kembung semula. sudah disendawakan, tapi masih juga.sekarang terpaksa berhenti guna minyak angin Telon yang dibilang orang bagus untuk baby yang selalu kembung perut sebab kulit Alisha sudah merah-merah.alergik la tu kan T_T.

Dalam bingung2 tu, teringat minyak Jerslin yang Fetriani bagi sebagai hadiah masa wedding haritu. Sudah disapu, baru Alisha macam lega ni. mamanya pun ikut lega. hubby ada belikan Alisha minyak yu yee.mudahan yang ini tidak alergik lagi. ibu (my mum) merancang untuk kasi tuam perut alisha dengan daun sirih yang dilayur. and mungkin sapu dengan minyak masak yang dicampur bawang merah. ada juga baca2 dalam Internet petua begitu. semuanya bagi feedback yang positif.

mamanya mungkin ada salah makan kali kan?so mana2 bakal ibu yang tersinggah di sini, nah jagalah kamu apa yang kamu makan masa masih menyusukan anak. MEMANG ada yang bilang, 'saya tiada juga berpantang lepas bersalin.makan saja apa2' tapi bukan semua orang beruntung macam tukan (baca dengan nada sedikit jeles ah). but i dont blame Alisha's weak tummy for making me not being able to eat what i craved.ibu harus sentiasa berkorbankan =) (awas, mmau menangis sudah ni bahaha)

oh ya, tips juga untuk ibu yang bagi babynya minum susu formula, mo di check doktor tu kalau asyik kembung.kemungkinan kena bertukar kepada lactose free milk. setakat ni, kami baru cuba dua susu formula. Frisolac Comfort alhamdulillah sesuai dengan Alisha cuma hubby pesan masih mau diawasi takut pasal susu ni perut dia masih kembung. kami terpaksa alternatekan Alisha between BM dan FM sebab mamanya ini kurang lactationnya.sedih rasanya tapi yang penting Alisha tidak berlapar dan maasih dapat nutrition needed.CUMA, janganlah berhenti BF terus.saya masih berazam untuk bagi BM sama Alisha sampai dia 2 tahun, walaupun cuma 1-2oz sehari.doakan saya ah T_T

sedang kusut sebenarnya nie. I am scheduled to come back to the office on the 10th this month, and after a few discussions with hubby, he agreed to take care Alisha for her first few months and will only concentrate on any career advancement after that, accept if he is offered something yang tidak boleh ditolak. he'll just foocus on his trainings during weekend and plan for the printing project. kurang berani bah kami mau lepaskan Alisha dijaga oleh orang lain. i prya and pray that things are easy peasy for hubby and Alisha at home while mama at the office. By, thanks for the sacrifice. Alisha & I really appreciate it. xoxo!

kalau dapat kerja separuh hari kan bagus?saya sesungguhnya cemburu kepada ibu2 yang ada masa fleksibel dalam menguruskan kerja (nikmatnya menjana pendapatan dari rumah kaann) dan masih ada masa 24/7 dengan anak.Ernie, you are one lucky mummy! (baca dalam nada jeles positif aaaahh)

Alisha's ending her 2 hours sleep with her bapa. i think part 1 ends here. part 2 tiada tarikh yang tetap, tengoklah macamana. i will share on how becoming a mama changed me 360degrees. care to wait?

Salam Tahun 2012. (tahun baru sudah sambut masa maal hijrah haritu kaannn ;p)

6.24am 03/01/12 : update: Syukur alhamdulillah, Alisha serasi dengan Minyak Yu Yee & Minyak Jerslin. akhjirnya semalam dia tidsur nyenyak dibilik my mum and after bangun for diaper change and milk,sambung tidur sampai subuh lagi.Alhamdulillah..esok kena buat appointment dengan Dr Irwan to check on her rashes.